rumors...
Let me put to bed some rumors here for all the married lesbians who just 'happen' to read this... (LOL)1. "Me being with another woman is NOT the same as you being with another woman."
Physically, maybe not. However... that's just a technicality and an attempt to keep your husband monogamous (and perhaps celebate) at home while you explore one, two, a dozen different women. Emotionally, it is still a threat to your marriage. Doesn't have to damage or destroy it, but is still a threat.
2. "Don't worry, you're the only man I'll ever be with. I don't want another."
Okay, so? This statement does nothing for me. I'll go ahead and admit that Iwon't be with another man either. Again, a blanket statement to attempt to comfort the man's fears.
Any husband who says, "As long as it's not another man," is either simple minded, doesn't need any intimacy or is getting some somewhere else. And, if your reading this and the above isn't true... KUDOS to you - because I don't get that.
Look, these married woman say this because they are confused. They aren't sure if they're new found exploration of other women - especially in the sexual sense - will pull them away from their husbands. What if it does? Well, why then, would they want their husbands to possibly do the same thing? As if seeing or being with another woman would make me "chuck it all" and leave my family and marriage. If anything, it might make me appreciate her even more. (you know, the old "let's go look at new houses" and then you come home and appreciate yours all over again?)
just my thoughts...
matt
posted by matt @ 6:38 AM
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