The latest...
So much time has passed since the last post. Here's the latest:V and I have decided to split up. After months of a stalemate (and me thinking that I will just have to stay put and pay the bills while she gets her career in order), V has come to the conclusion that it's not going to work between us. (duh!)
Now, here's the real scoop: V has a fling going on on the side. One of her clients. And I knew it too. The signs were there, just like the last few times. Oh, and it's a man, not a woman. He's tied up in his own crappy situation - and his wife is having a fling with someone else!
Needless to say, I'm not spending any intimate time with V. We live in separate ends of the house and she says she will be moving out in a couple months. (or three, or four... it's going to be damned soon or I'm moving out instead of her!)
Briefly, that's it. It's a relief to have the conclusion finally! But, she needs to move out pronto!
update: And, as the weeks drag on and on... I have set the "absolute move out date" of Labor Day weekend. One of us is moving out that weekend! I'm tired of all this... tired of her being around, using things, spending money, crapping up, what she keeps reminding me is, my house.
She was out of town on business last week and f'd her boss! (not that I care... but she said she cared about this married guy so much). This week, she's been gone all week as well... supposedly out of town on business. It's great to not have her here - less to clean up after, less utilities used, less stress. I can, and will happily, take care of my daughter by myself. I think she's going to be okay through all this.
V has told the neighbors and some of our friends. So, I've started to tell a few people myself. The official announcement though will be when she actually moves out. Let's count the days... :)
Hmmm... such a drastic difference in my tone now as two years ago, huh? I look back on all this and see that it really didn't have so much to do with her being a lesbian, huh?
so... whatya think?
posted by matt @ 4:22 PM
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