with a bug in the ointment
So, I've come to a conclusion in my head and then... now V's trip to see her girl may be in jeopardy as the girl has been blowing V off the last few days and the trip to see here is planned for next weekend.It's funny, things never turn out how I think they will turn out. I expect some end result of a situation (big raise, affection, understanding, a new friendship or relationship) and it often seems the opposite is what happens. In this case, I expected for V and her girl to "hit it off" and at least be "part-time lovers." So, it probably won't work that way. Why do I care? Perhaps I'm looking for a sign... or a reason to make a break.
At least if V and this girl are on the outs, V has no other "prospects" and I have no other person(s) distracting me on my end, maybe V and I can really get to the point regarding our relationship and make some decisions. I have so many things to discuss with her and tell her regarding us - It would be good to have a clear head when making such an important decision, right??
posted by matt @ 1:09 PM
1 Comments:
dude, i just stumbled on your blog via freya's house. your earlier post on parameters was perceptive. obviously you shouldn't take advice from anonymous comment posters - but can i recommend some reading? there's a great book called 'the ethical slut' which is all about non-monogamous relationships and how to do them *ethically* - honestly, equally, mutually. pick it up, if you haven't already. i think you'll find it insightful... good luck.
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