RE DISCOVERY

am i more accepting?

So, we went out Saturday. And, we partied. Together.

It was great, actually. She's my good friend and lover (although we haven't had sex in 2 weeks) and we really enjoyed ourselves and the company we were with. (work christmas party) Lots of friends, new acquaintances (one girl we both thought was hot, more me than her because she thought the girl was "butch" - i didn't agree) and plenty of wine too.

Christmas parties are always fun; lots of dancing, hugging, touching, etc. And, then the last hour or so you spend with your wife! (just kidding.) I do feel like I have a great network of friends - people I enjoy being with.

So, at this party, she met a girl that I kind of like - and of course, gave me the third degree over it (but in a nice way). Probably it's because I told her, "yeah, I really like her" to which she replied: "I think she really likes you." I'm not sure what she's worried about - I work with her and I'm not thinking she wants to be involved with me, anyway. And, that's not what I'm expecting, anyway.

Although, for the first time, I've thought it might be nice to have a friend (or whatever) in addition to my wife. Just the idea seems nice. :)

so... whatya think? m

posted by matt @ 1:33 PM